Becoming an Aka is not a one-week project. It’s a thousand small choices. You return your shopping cart to the corral. You water the office plant without being asked. You remember that your friend hates cilantro. These are your Aka badges.
Over time, these tiny acts stack up. People start noticing. They won’t call you “The Aka” out loud (okay, maybe they will if you’re lucky), but they’ll lean on you. They’ll bring you soup when you’re sick. See? The universe pays you back in weird, delicious ways.
How to Become an AKA: 12 Steps (with Pictures) - wikiHow